I admit that the comparison was problematic, but I have some very, very specific triggers in regards to the situation as-presented. You have no knowledge of me or my situation, and you have no way to know that those situations aren't comparable for me, specifically. To say nothing of the fact that as the OP stated, it was incredibly OOC for the character in question - I play from Fate/Zero, I'm aware of Caster's modus operandi. The result was that this felt like it was done entirely for shock value, from right out of nowhere, and when I asked one of the mods privately whether this was going to be an ongoing thing I got an incredibly vague answer that did not tell me whether this was going to happen again or not, coupled with a literal "Well, I'm sorry you were offended." Part of my issues regard having the aftermath of my situation completely disregarded. So yes, that is what it feels like to me, individually, because of my specific situation.

I was feeling incredibly unsafe in the game due to the fact that I mentioned I was uncomfortable and it was not made plain at any time that this was going to be a rare/one-off thing. If anything it was implied more heavily that it would be ongoing, given that it was supposedly IC for Caster to do such things. I wanted to know if this would happen again out of nowhere, and I got a shrug, a vague response, and whether it was intentional or not, a non-apology that put everything on me. That isn't an atmosphere I could feel safe in at all.